The rapist rapes and ex-rapists and potential
rapists blame the victim.
It is possible that some man may be falsely
implicated because of enmity as may happen with some famous person but this is
not a social problem – it is a serious crime as someone is falsely implicated
in murder, bribe, embezzlement or treason. And in most of such cases, it is
some man or men who use or coerce woman to falsely implicate some man for
political or other gains.
Or one may be having sex with some servant or
subordinate and she allowed it to take advantage and when man denies her
expected advantage the woman may level charge of rape.
Or one may hire a woman, such as a sex worker, for
sex and not pays the woman promised amount then she may level charge of rape
after this breach of contract.
Or one may be doing courtship and promises marriage
and then defects then she may level
charges of rape because of this breach of contract.
When a man rapes or group of men gang rape a woman ?
These men are not law abiding citizens and need no defence.
The woman belonging to weaker section – a Dalit or Adivasi
woman is raped and gang raped – the rapists belong to powerful community and
victim and doers live in two different societies, two different Worlds and so
doers remain safe and immune.
The woman is foreigner out of her World and man or
men are local and unidentifiable by her and so doers remain safe and immune
from punishment.
The woman may be overwhelmed and confounded under
changed circumstances of hospitals, police station, railway station, hotel and
other such localities. Or woman may be under effect of alcohol, drugs or
anaesthesia. Or she may be insane or of low IQ. Thus doers remain safe and
immune from punishment.
The men belonging to villages and slums come to big
cities for job or education or treatment and here they are unknown and feel
themselves marginalized or these men misfit in cities but have political
backing or are member of criminal gang – such men are danger to single woman
and such men may rape, kill and run away.
Then many rapes and gang rapes are committed to
teach lessons to family, caste or community of woman. And in some places where woman is related to
some revolutionary, insurgent group and in many such cases, police,
paramilitary and military personnel are involved.
The rapes and gang rapes are done during riots and
as hate crimes.
The rapes are done upon small girls where man is sex
deviant, psychopath or does so to cure himself from venereal disease.
Except in first case, that is rare too, of false
implication, there is no ground to defend man and blame woman, and if woman was
coerced to make false allegation in first case then again she cannot be held
guilty.
We, men, because of biological reasons, find woman
sexually attractive and desire to touch, embrace, kiss and enter in her and it
is also true that we lose that deep
craving after getting her or marrying her – so all this is biochemistry and we
get excited by nudity and nearness and after viewing pornographic material and
most of us , civilized and law abiding people, are able to control ourselves
and satisfy ourselves in fancy, after nocturnal emission or through
masturbation and have no inclination to proceed against consent.
Then gradually we realize the truth that film
actresses and models and even those who play erotic roles or even act in blue
films, they are doing their struggle for success and for economic reasons and for their family and so
are the sex workers and they all these deserve to be regarded as human beings
having freedom, rights and dignity and we have no right to proceed against
their consent.
So neither we, civilized and law abiding citizens,
rape and molest and nor we find victim blameworthy and nor we advise any type
of restraint upon girls and women. By your nonsense talks, you are causing harm
to civilized society and rule of law and helping the crime.
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